Donor Nexus Recognized for Open Donation on The Egg Whisperer Show
Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh and Victoria Niño on Donor Nexus
Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh, a reproductive endocrinologist we partner with on fresh and frozen cycles for her patients, sat down with author and advocate Victoria Niño, who had a child with eggs from our frozen egg bank. Their conversation turned to how the fertility industry is moving toward more open donation, and to the part Donor Nexus has played in that shift.
Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh and Victoria Niño on open egg donation, from The Egg Whisperer Show.
It is not often you hear a conversation this special, with one woman caring for patients in the clinic and the other living the experience as a mother, and it left our whole team feeling proud of them both, and grateful that our name came up in a discussion that matters this much to the families we serve.
What Dr. Aimee shared about Donor Nexus
Dr. Aimee began by saying how glad she is to see the industry embracing openness between donors and the families they help create, and then she spoke about her own experience working with our team.
"Donor Nexus has always been at the forefront and leader of these things."
Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh, The Egg Whisperer
She explained that even before open donation was widely discussed, Donor Nexus was willing to introduce her families to their egg donors, and that the donors said yes when those introductions were requested. Recognition like this means a great deal coming from a physician who guides patients through donor egg decisions, and we're grateful to Dr. Aimee for sharing it with her audience.
Asking donors instead of assuming
For our coordinators, supporting openness often starts with simply asking. When an intended parent is hoping for some level of contact, we reach out to the donor to learn what she's comfortable with rather than treating anonymity as the only option, and because Donor Nexus offers both Non-ID and Open ID options, each match can reflect what feels right to the donor and to the family.
Victoria's experience as a Donor Nexus intended parent
Victoria saw this firsthand when she worked with our Frozen Egg Bank. She wanted a donor who would be open to contact, so our team checked with her ideal donor about her comfort level before Victoria made her choice. In the full episode, she shares that she and her donor began communicating after her first trimester, and that the connection became especially valuable later, when a family medical history question came up, and her donor was able to answer it quickly.
"Can we just ask the donors?"
In the clip, Victoria also puts into words something many intended parents have wondered: "Can we just ask the donors?" She believes a lot of donors are open to contact but have simply been told that anonymity is how donation works, and she notes that you can't really even use the word anonymous anymore, which reflects how much consumer DNA testing has changed things for donor-conceived families.
Exploring open donation with Donor Nexus
If knowing your donor matters to you, or you're still deciding whether it does, our team can walk you through the Non-ID and Open ID donors available and what contact could look like for your family.
Questions to talk through early in your search
- Would you like future contact with your donor, and what kind of contact feels comfortable to you?
- When would you want communication to begin, if at all?
- How would you like to handle family medical history questions after your match?
- If your child wants to reach the donor someday, what would you want that process to look like?
Watch the full episode
Thank you to Dr. Aimee for the kind words about our team and for welcoming Victoria to The Egg Whisperer Show, and thank you to Victoria for sharing her family's experience so openly with other intended parents. You can watch the full episode, where Victoria also talks about grieving failed IVF cycles and deciding to move forward with donor eggs.
About Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh
Dr. Aimee Eyvazzadeh is a board-certified reproductive endocrinologist known as The Egg Whisperer. She hosts The Egg Whisperer Show, a fertility podcast for patients navigating IVF, egg freezing, and donor egg journeys. Follow her on Instagram at @draimee.
About Victoria Niño
Victoria Niño is a donor egg IVF advocate, author of the children's book Our Hearts Match, and a mother via egg donation. She shares her experience with donor conception, epigenetics, and early disclosure on Instagram at @expectinganything.
About Donor Nexus
Donor Nexus is an egg donation agency, California-licensed tissue bank and FDA-registered egg bank based in Newport Beach, California, with Fresh Donor Matching, a Frozen Egg Bank and Embryo Donation all under one roof. Since 2012, our team has supported more than 2,000 babies born to families around the world.
Having all three programs in house means no one gets steered toward the only option we happen to offer. Some families want a fresh cycle with a donor matched to them, others prefer the shorter timeline of a cohort from the Frozen Egg Bank, and some find their path through embryo donation. Our case managers talk through those tradeoffs with you, coordinate donor records, timing and shipping directly with your clinic, and stay with you from the first call through your transfer.
Where to go from here
If you are still in the reading and gathering stage, browse our blog for articles on all the questions we hear the most often.
Victoria's Frozen Donor Egg Success StoryTen years of infertility, a frozen egg cohort and the daughter she talks about in this episode.Read her story
Open ID, Identified and Nonidentified DonationWhat each level of openness means and how to decide which one fits your family.Compare the options
Find a Donor Egg Support GroupWhere intended parents and parents through donor conception find each other, online and in person.Find your peopleA note on donor contact
Donor Nexus offers both Non-ID and Open ID donors, and we do not present either one as the better choice. Open ID means a donor has agreed to some form of contact, while Non-ID means she has chosen to keep her information private, and both reflect decisions the donor made for herself. Whether contact happens, what it looks like and when it begins is something each intended parent works out alongside their donor and our team.
Donor Nexus Team
The Donor Nexus Team is the group of case managers, donor coordinators, and egg bank staff who run the agency's Fresh Donor Matching, Frozen Egg Bank, and Embryo Donation programs day to day. Since 2012 they ha…
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